Diary of one girl's quest to lose her virginity during her remaining few weeks at University.

Saturday, June 04, 2005

Is my mission moral?

I just received the following email from my pleasantly outspoken best friend from my hometown.

“What the fuck are you playing at? You can’t advertise your virginity in exchange for website hits! Don’t you want your first time to be with someone you love?”

My response to her and anybody else questioning the moral nature of my mission is this: Although ideally there would be some love between me and first sexual partner, I am not so deluded as to expect to find and nurture such a connection in the next three weeks therefore I argue that adopting a carefully thought out strategy whereby I go on a date with each of a series of suitors and pick the best, is relatively constructive and honourable because it’s better than the method that many people in my position would adopt, i.e. getting pissed and screwing the first reasonably attractive person available.

7 comments:

Janet said...

Not moral but at least you're being honest.

Anonymous said...

Honest with who? Not yourself at all. You cant really think its moral can u?

Anonymous said...

Why is it not moral?

Anonymous said...

I don't understand why you're so desperate to lose your virginity before you finish university. And surely you could have taken some time out from your 3 years of studying and spent time finding the right person rather than leaving it til now... Why not give yourself til the end of the calendar year instead?

The Virgin Student said...

judging by the response I'm getting, I won't NEED until the end of the calendar year!

Anonymous said...

Ruskin on morality: Taste is not a part or index of morality, it is morality.

So all boils down to the crucial question "What do you like?"

So dear Virgin (or at least not-for-long Virgin), collect all the CVs people send in and start making choices...

Anonymous said...

I think it's perfectly moral.

Sexual freedom rules OK.