Avoid Disappointment

I have received two messages demanding responses and one from somebody who seems genuinely upset not to have had a response yet. Please understand that I’m receiving in excess of 40 emails about this per day plus dating, plus updating my site and all on top of my every day activities. I really can’t reply to everybody straight away. I have read messages from guys that am considering dating but simply haven’t had a chance to reply. It may be a few days before I do as I have a date this evening and things to do with my friends later in the week.

If you really want to catch my attention then here are a few things that might help:

Use email
I’m flooded by messages on Oxford Romance, you’re much more likely to get noticed if you email virginstudent69@yahoo.co.uk

Write a sensible amount
Don’t write pages and pages (maybe 4 sentences maximum) because even if you’re the most wonderful person in the world I won’t have time to read it and I’ll probably print it out intending to read it in bed before I go to sleep but alas it will get buried under other things and never be seen again.

Be original
I get loads of messages saying “Hi, How’s the quest going.” And “I think I can help.” They all get ignored because let’s face it, they’re dull.

On a final note...
...Keep things in perspective
Although my virginity is very important to me and I want to ensure that my first time is very special, please bear in mind that (unless you are one of the four I’ve met already) you don’t know me at all. From your point of view it shouldn’t be very important. There is no need to send me rude or disappointed messages. If I haven’t replied yet I may do in the future and even if I don’t, it’s not an insult to you as a person because after all, I know very little about you.